What happens inside a human being that makes him want to control someone else? When one individual approaches another and engages in a conversation , which happens millions of times each day, one if two things will happen; either an individual will come away feeling strong and confident or feeling weak and tired depending upon what occurs in the interaction. Because of this type of interaction people seem to take a manipulative posture when beginning an encounter with another individual. No matter what the particulars of the conversation or the subject matter, we prepare ourselves for battle entering each conversation in order to prevail. Each person seeks control of the conversation thus appearing to remain on top in the encounter. If we are successful, and our views are accepted, we are the victor, if not we cower and leave the encounter in defeat. We seek to outwit and control each other not just because of some tangible goal we wish to achieve, but because it lifts us physiologically. I believe this is why we see so many irrational conflicts and arguments between people and nations. But what is really happening in these encounters? The entire universe is made up of
